Mark 10:43-45: “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve.”
Mark 10:43-45: But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
If anyone in the history deserved to be served it was Jesus Christ. As the eternal Son of God, “by whom all things were created,” He warranted the respect of all His creation.  But Jesus did not come demanding His due. Instead, He washed feet, healed the sick, and lived in poverty.  But His serving did not end there. As the end of Mark 10:45 indicates, Christ died to save His people from their sins.  Christ’s death was intensely painful, but more importantly He bore the just wrath of God the Father so that we could approach Him in peace. 
Why does this matter? First, if you follow Christ, there is a clear command to grow to be like Christ.  You will never do it perfectly in this life.  But as people in Christ we can grow in the fruits of the Spirit to minister to our families, communities, and the world at large.  Perhaps you, like me, can begin by patiently listening to everything your spouse has to say before responding. But what if someone does not follow Christ? Can she or he borrow Christian principles without Christian spirituality? The Holy Spirit is needed to have the benefits of Christian living, and you cannot have the Spirit of Christ without Christ.  Christian disciplines without Christ are merely morals. But there is another important matter: Christ will return.  He will save His people and require His due from those who are not His followers.  Will you serve the Servant peacefully or be forced into submission?
 Colossians 1:15-20.
 John 13:4, 13-15; Matthew 8:16; Luke 9:58, etc.
 Mark 14:24; John 10:15, 11:51-52; Romans 4:25, 5:15; 2 Corinthians 8:9; Galatians 1:4, 2:20; Titus 2:14, 3:4-8; 1 Timothy 2:6; Hebrews 2:10, 9:28; Revelation 5:9, etc.
 Isaiah 52:13-15; Matthew 26:67; Mark 15:15; Luke 23:34; Matthew 27:46; Hebrews 4:14-16.
 Philippians 2:1-11.
 Romans 7.
 Romans 6; Galatians 5:22-23.
 John 14-16; Acts 2:38-39; Romans 8; Galatians 4:4-7; etc.
 Matthew 24:23-31; John 14:6; Acts 1:10-11; Revelation 19:11-21.
 Hebrews 9:28; Romans 14:11; Philippians 2:9-11.