Lamentations 3:21-23: When Grief Strikes
But this I call to mind,
and therefore I have hope:
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases;
his mercies never come to an end;
they are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness. 
You may know, or even be, someone who strikes at God when grief strikes. After all, God could have prevented your pain, right? Lamentations gives us a window into the Lord’s view of suffering. This poem is written with the destruction of Jerusalem in mind.  If you have ever lost everything you could empathize with Lamentation’s author. But when grief strikes the author, he healthily acknowledges it while bringing to memory the hope he has in God.  If the lamenter focuses on his situation, he will slip into despair and rage against his only hope: the Triune Lord.  The Father’s “incomprehensible and wonderful kindness” in ordaining our weaknesses and circumstances to develop love for Him is our hope in “despair.” 
But there is more. Do you know that God laments over the world’s brokenness?  He lamented enough that He went to the cross to deal with it. Christ’s sufferings ensure that His children will not eternally suffer.  The Son’s sufferings rescue us from despair so that we can grieve realistically and healthily. Embracing the Trinity found in the Bible is embracing hope for all circumstances.
 The Reformation Study Bible. General Editor R.C. Sproul. (Lake Mary, FL: Ligonier Ministries, 2005), 1131-1132.
 John Calvin. Commentaries on the Book of the Prophet Jeremiah and the Lamentations, Vol. 5. Trans. John Owen. (Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Book House Company, 1981),
 Calvin, The Book of the Prophet Jeremiah and the Lamentations, Vol. 5., 406.
 Calvin, The Book of the Prophet Jeremiah and the Lamentations, Vol. 5., 407.
 Ezekiel 18; 23 and 32; Psalm 34:18; John 11:35.
 Romans 8.